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Greek Mythology Notes

Iphis of Argos

🗡 heroἼφις
Unrequited Love, Class, Suicide

Poor Argive youth who died of unrequited love for Anaxarete, who was then turned to stone.‌​‍​‍​‍​‍​‌​‍​‌​‍​‌​‍​‍​‌​‌​‍​‌​‌​‍​‍​‌​‌​‌​‍​‍​‌​‍​‍​‌​‍​‌​‍​‍

The Legend of Iphis of Argos

Iphis was a young man of humble birth in Salamis or Argos who fell deeply in love with Anaxarete, a noblewoman of royal Cypriot descent.‌​‍​‍​‍​‍​‌​‍​‌​‍​‌​‍​‍​‌​‌​‍​‌​‌​‍​‍​‌​‌​‌​‍​‍​‌​‍​‍​‌​‍​‌​‍​‍ She treated his declarations of love with contempt, and despite his persistent pleas — leaving garlands on her door, sending messengers, weeping at her threshold — she remained cold and dismissive. Iphis finally hanged himself at her gate, leaving a message that she might at least look on him now. When his funeral procession passed, Anaxarete climbed to her window to watch, and at that moment the gods transformed her into a stone statue — still in the posture of watching. The statue remained in a temple of Venus at Salamis called Venus Prospiciens (the Looking Venus). The story is preserved most fully in Ovid's Metamorphoses and serves as a counter-example myth about the dangers of cruelty to lovers, functioning as the inverse of the Pygmalion story on the same island.

Parents

Unnamed humble parents

Symbols

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Fun Fact

Iphis and Anaxarete are a deliberate mythological counter-pair to Pygmalion: where Pygmalion's love animated stone to life, Anaxarete's cruelty turned a living person to stone.

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