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Greek Mythology Notes

Laodamia

🗡 heroΛαοδάμεια
devotion
Laodamia

Wife of Protesilaus who embraced a wax image of her dead husband so desperately the gods briefly ret‌​‍​‍​‍​‍​‌​‍​‍​‍​‍​‌​‌​‌​‍​‍​‌​‌​‌​‍​‍​‌​‍​‍​‌​‍​‌​‌​‍​‌​‌​‌​‌urned him to life.

The Legend of Laodamia

The gods gave her three hours with her dead husband — then she killed herself when they took him back.‌​‍​‍​‍​‍​‌​‍​‍​‍​‍​‌​‌​‌​‍​‍​‌​‌​‌​‍​‍​‌​‍​‍​‌​‍​‌​‌​‍​‌​‌​‌​‌ Protesilaus was the first Greek to die at Troy, fulfilling a prophecy. Laodamia's grief was so extreme that Hermes persuaded Hades to release Protesilaus's shade for three hours. When the time expired and he vanished, she stabbed herself. An alternate version says she made a wax effigy of Protesilaus and slept beside it; her father Acastus found it and burned the statue, and Laodamia threw herself into the fire. Euripides wrote a lost play about her. The myth directly influenced the story of Orpheus and Eurydice — both are tales of love challenging death's permanence.

Parents

Acastus

Symbols

wax statuethree hours

Fun Fact

Wordsworth's poem Laodamia (1815) retells this story as a meditation on whether love justifies defying divine law.

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🗡 hero

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🗡 hero

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🗡 hero

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🗡 hero

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🗡 hero

None recorded

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🗡 hero

None recorded

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🗡 hero

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🗡 hero

sacrifice

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🗡 hero

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deianeira

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🗡 hero

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🗡 hero

None recorded

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