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Greek Mythology Notes

Phaon

🗡 heroΦάων
beauty
Phaon

Ferryman of Lesbos made supernaturally beautiful by Aphrodite, said to have been loved by the poet S‌​‌​‌​‌​‌​‌​‍​‍​‌​‍​‍​‍​‍​‍​‌​‍​‍​‍​‍​‍​‍​‌​‌​‌​‍​‌​‌​‍​‍​‌​‍​‌appho.

The Legend of Phaon

Aphrodite made him so beautiful that Sappho threw herself from a cliff for love of him — at least, that is what the male comedians claimed.‌​‌​‌​‌​‌​‌​‍​‍​‌​‍​‍​‍​‍​‍​‌​‍​‍​‍​‍​‍​‍​‌​‌​‌​‍​‌​‌​‍​‍​‌​‍​‌ Phaon was an old, ugly ferryman. Aphrodite, disguised as an old woman, asked for passage. He carried her for free. In gratitude, she gave him an ointment that made him the most beautiful man alive. Every woman on Lesbos desired him. Later tradition (mostly comic poets and Ovid) claimed Sappho fell in love with Phaon and leaped from the Leucadian cliff when rejected. Scholars consider this story a male-authored fiction designed to heterosexualize Sappho. The myth is more revealing about Greek anxiety over female desire than about either historical figure.

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Fun Fact

The Sappho-Phaon story is almost certainly a fiction invented by comic poets to mock or normalize Sappho's sexuality.

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🗡 hero

Sculptor who fell in love with his statue

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Nireus

🗡 hero

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Narcissus

🗡 hero

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Alcmene

🗡 hero

Mother of Heracles

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Iphis of Argos

🗡 hero

Unrequited Love, Class, Suicide

Poor Argive youth who died of unrequited love for Anaxarete, who was then turned to stone.

Sappho

🗡 hero

Greatest lyric poet, legend of Lesbos

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Ariadne

🗡 hero

love

Cretan princess who saved Theseus with a ball of thread, was abandoned on Naxos, and became the immortal wife of Dionysus.

Caenus

🗡 hero

Transformation, Invulnerability, Gender

Lapith warrior transformed from a woman into an invulnerable man by Poseidon, killed by Centaurs pounding him into the earth.

Ganymede

🗡 hero

beauty

Most beautiful mortal boy, abducted by Zeus (as an eagle) to serve as cupbearer of the gods on Olympus.

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Tyro

🗡 hero

love

Beautiful princess who fell in love with the river god Enipeus, only to be seduced by Poseidon disguised as the river.

Psyche

🗡 hero

Mortal whose love conquered a god

Psyche was a princess so beautiful that Aphrodite was jealous — she married Eros in darkness and lost him when she looked, then won him back through impossible labours.

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Pygmalion

🗡 hero

Sculptor who fell in love with his own creation

A sculptor who carved an ivory statue so beautiful that he fell in love with it. Aphrodite, moved by his devotion, brought the statue to life.

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