Tantalize
To torment with something desired but just out of reach, from King Tantalus and his eternal punishment.
The Meaning of Tantalize
Tantalus was a king so favoured by the gods that he dined at their table on Olympus. He abused this privilege terribly: he stole nectar and ambrosia to share with mortals, revealed divine secrets, and — in the most horrific act — killed his own son Pelops, cooked him, and served him to the gods to test their omniscience. All the gods recognised the deception except Demeter, who was distracted by grief for Persephone and ate a piece of shoulder. Zeus condemned Tantalus to stand in a pool of water in Tartarus, beneath branches heavy with ripe fruit. Whenever he bent to drink, the water receded. Whenever he reached for the fruit, the branches pulled away. He would spend eternity surrounded by sustenance he could never taste. The English verb "tantalize" captures this precise torment: to offer something desirable while keeping it perpetually out of reach.
Words We Inherited
English words and phrases that trace back to this myth. See our full guide to English words from Greek mythology.
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